A scandal of unbelievable proportion is rocking ARM Pension, an otherwise reputable firm. One of its female staff has publicly accused one of their Executive Directors of abducting her from a party, dumped her in a hotel, and violated her without her consent.
Her problem started when at the party held by the Company, she left her food, drink and personal belongings on the table to help see to it that everybody was being well taken care of. When she came back to her seat, she took her drink, and that was when she began to lose awareness of her environment. It was so bad that she was advised not to drive herself back home.
A good Samaritan, or so she thought, was detailed by her colleagues to take her home after the Party since they live around same place. That good Samaritan was the Company’s Executive Director. But instead of taking her home, he took her to a hotel, booked a room and violated her for over an hour.
She said she woke up at about 3.00am and found herself naked, alone, and in a strange environment – hotel.
She began to ask questions and concluded that not only was her drink “spiked”, her Executive Director who was detailed to drop her in her house, had taken advantage of her situation.
The single mother of two children is crying blue mother. She said she has been forced to lose her self esteem, mentally tortured and violated. She wants justice. She has petitioned her Company. And the Police is on the case.
The Executive Director has been arrested by the Lagos State Command and was already in detention as at the time of filing this story.
The Management of ARM Pension has acknowledged the petition but pointed out that the sordid incident did not take place in its premises. It has also placed the Executive Director on suspension and, professionally, giving support and helping the violated staff to regain her self esteem.
In a no-hold-back petition, the staff told the story of her ordeal which follows below. Even though she made her name and phone number public in the petition, as well as that of her alleged violator and his phone number, we chose here to withhold them, just as we also chose not to publish the photograph of the Executive Director.
Her stort then:
“Dear Opeyemi,
“My name is (Withheld by us) . I am 36 years of age and I work at ARM Pension as an HR Business Partner. I would like to officially report that I was se#ually assaulted i.e. I was abducted and ra#ed by (nane withheld by us), ED technical at ARM Pension on the night of July 18, 2024 when we had the an office party. (Withheld by us) of ARM Pension, No 5 Mekuwen road, off Oyinkan Abayomi drive, Ikoyi had penetrative se#ual intercourse with me, without my consent.
“The assault was done at a certain hotel I woke up to find myself at called Limeridge hotel at Chevron drive, Lagos.
“On the evening of the office party, just like every other staff member at the party I had food and drinks. I had mixed a small amount of Jameson whiskey and coke. This whiskey bottle was opened by Francisca Azie on the table I was seated at with other colleagues. However, being part of the planning committee I had to stand up from my table at intervals to coordinate the serving of food and at such times left my drink, food and other personal effects in the care of Damilola Oluyori (07085757685) who is a colleague and one I am very friendly with.
“My last memory of the party was at about 7.30,8ish. However, Dami claimed that I mentioned to her that I was tipsy and could not drive. So she offered to find a way for me to go home and then approached (withheld by us) to drop me off since he lived around the same axis as me. I live at Femi Okunnu Phase 4 estate Jakande lekki. Along with the Jameson whiskey which was like ¼ of a plastic cup, I had one cocktail from the bar that is the last I remembered. I lost total memory of every conversation and activity as my last memory of the night was from 7.30pm. My entire memory was wiped out which was very unusual even for someone who might have drunk excessively which I didn’t and have quite a good alcohol tolerance from precedent. Next thing I know I wake up and realize I am in a room fully undressed. I look around and I realize it was a hotel. I find my clothes in a pile and my wig, my phone and my handbag. I checked the time it was around 3am and my private parts were sore and felt like someone had invaded me. I walked out of the room, looked around for a clue of the name of the hotel to even have a sense of where I was, I saw the name Limeridge hotel, I googled it and I found that it’s on chevron drive. I ask the receptionist and security man to help me get a taxi so I can go home. I further checked my whatsapp messages and I saw that the perpetrator had sent me a message that he was with my laptop bag and ID Card. Damilola had sent me a couple of messages that sounded frantic wanting to know if I was okay and if (withheld by us)dropped me at home. I sent her a message to tell her that I do not understand why my memory is wiped out and it’s unusual.
“When it was morning, I tried to call (withheld) twice and he didn’t pick up. I messaged him that I’d like to talk to him and shortly after he called me. When he called I asked him how I ended up in a hotel since I was in his car as my colleagues said and he was to drop me at home. He said he asked me for my address and I was incoherent and so he took me to that hotel. I further asked why I was naked when I woke up and he said he didn’t know, that he just dropped me and left. I later spoke to my colleagues Damilola and Odera because I needed to find my car and I was told that my car was safe in the office. Damilola further mentioned that she sent videos of me and her dancing at the party to ( withheld) as he requested her to. I have no recollection of her making any video except for some pictures we had earlier taken at the start of the party and an 11 seconds video. However, she shared videos with me this morning of me and her dancing and another colleague was in the video. Again my memory is blanked out on this. I messaged (withheld) later on Friday morning to ask how I could get my laptop bag and ID card and he said he had given the security guards in the office to put it in my car.
“I went back to the hotel that Friday morning after I dropped off my kids at school and I asked to see the CCTV footage to ascertain when he brought me there and if he really just left after dropping me. The receptionist first confirmed that he paid for the hotel room at 22.05, showed me evidence and then went ahead to show me the footage, I was seen leaning on him and he was holding my shoes and a hand on my back guiding me into the hotel and hotel room at about 15.52 and was seen leaving at 17.36. Now, this time I am quoting is because the CCTV time in the hotel was not West African time, WAT, but the time interval was about 1 hour 45 minutes he was in the hotel room with me.
“I called my family and informed them of this. I have had a ra#e kit test done at Island maternity on Friday. I made a formal report at the Ikoyi Police station on Saturday morning. My private part was bruised and I have been in pain. I have also formally reported to the Head of HR, who is my boss with the MD and another Executive Director in copy. My life has been disrupted badly. I am a single mother with two kids and my mental and physical state has been impacted by this incident and I need to take care and show up for my kids in all of this.
“I sent him another message that Friday morning asking why he didn’t ask Dami or any of my other colleagues for my address if truly he had the intention to drop me at my house which he had no response to. I did not remotely have any conversation with (withheld) or give any consent to be involved with him in any remotely personal way. He asked me at the party to come sit with him and I refused and sat with my colleagues who I was comfortable with.
“He took me against my will, most likely put-spiked my drink with the help of someone or by himself and took me to a destination I didn’t know or want to be and ra#ed me. It is beyond sad that I could not be safe at an office function and instead my whole world has been overturned.
“I am on some very strong medication given to me at Island maternity, antibiotics and HIV Post exposure prophylaxis and have requested some time from work to recuperate. I believe he is a serial ra#ist and I might not be the first person he would have done this too.
“I am requesting that Lagos state take this case up fully and this predator who has tried to ruin my life and cause me this trauma be persecuted to the full extent of the law, he and whoever aided him.
“Thank you for taking time to read this.”
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